Sugar Waffle's Journal, 11 Apr 16

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Warning if you live in COl. CO. NY. Carol in Kinderhook, watch out for a silver Toyota Prestige, blue and white NY plate starting with AST ....

Last Thursday, a man tried to cause me to have a car accident over 8 times in less than a mile. He then ended up next to me at a light and proceeded to sexually harass me. I reported it to the sheriff. Result: There is nothing they can do because the creepy old man did not threaten me! I would think trying to cause an accident on purpose would be road rage. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I suspect he was connected to someone in the political scene in our county. He was way too confident in what he did to me. And how many other people has he done this to???

How did I handle that creep you wonder? All I said was while he was being so vulgar: "Isn't it a wonderful day? I forgive you and may God bless you" with a smile on my face. I may have handled myself calmly but clearly the rest of my being was so upset and felt so violated. I have never heard a man say those things to a woman before. Now, I feel worse because he got away with it and will continue to put others in harm's way with his evilness.

So, now I am embarrassed to say that when I stepped on the scale this morning at work, my weight was 153.3. That is up 13 lbs in 4 days from stress eating.

On the positive side of this whole incident is that I am so grateful that I was not in an accident. As this guy was doing this to me, I never got upset or lost control. I believe it's because of the meditations and listening to soothing music.

I am also grateful for all of the members on this site. Thank you for all of your kind words and support!

View Diet Calendar, 11 April 2016:

664 kcal

Fat: 72.40g | Prot: 3.52g | Carbs: 2.06g. Breakfast: Heavy Cream, Coffee (Brewed From Grounds), Organic Valley Organic Salted Butter, Spectrum Organic Virgin Coconut Oil, Spectrum Organic Virgin Coconut Oil, Organic Valley Organic Salted Butter, Coffee (Brewed From Grounds), Heavy Cream. Snacks/Other: Heavy Cream, Coffee, Coffee, Heavy Cream. more...

1932 kcal

Exercise: Walking (exercise) - 5.5/kph - 50 minutes, Housework - 1 hour and 45 minutes, Driving - 1 hour and 15 minutes, Resting - 12 hours and 10 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...

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Sugar, the stress weight will go away and sorry that happened to you. Perhaps you can get a can of bear replant just incase you need it. But you handled yourself well.

11 Apr 16 by member: Rockiesfan

sorry to hear about the abuse. Please be careful, there are predators that do this kind of thing hit you with their car expect you to stop and then attack. Always drive to a gas station or store parking lot where therea re cameras and other people. Best wishes and the weight is just a process you will get back on track.

11 Apr 16 by member: deasmiles

Sorry to hear about what this disgusting creep did to you. Keep up the meditation Sugar.

11 Apr 16 by member: chesgreen

you are an AWESOME and POSITIVE person. don't let some A-Hole deter you from that! I'm glad you reported him even if they can't do anything about it. It is good to have it on record.

11 Apr 16 by member: Rckc

I give you so much credit for handling that creeper that way. If it were me he was acting that way. I would of either 1. cursed him off 2. beat him up or 3 if my boyfriend was with me- he would kick his ass. You handled it much better than I would of! Good for you for being the stronger person! But people like that sometimes need a beating LOL

11 Apr 16 by member: Panigale1199

I am so proud of you for keeping it together and staying calm during the incident. I can't imagine that I would have the presence of mind to do that. Just reading this made me so angry with the jerk. I am appalled that law enforcement reacted in that manner. I would probably contact my local news channel to warn others.

11 Apr 16 by member: mmeyer2263

I'm so glad that you are alright...don't worry about that creep...every one gets what they got coming in the end. Have faith (sounds like it's already strong) and carry on!

11 Apr 16 by member: DivaTrue

Glad you're alright, sending supportive positive vibes your way!

11 Apr 16 by member: 1point21gigawatts

Prayers going up for your peace and comfort.

11 Apr 16 by member: rreed01562

Horrible incident. Please focus on how "YOU" behaved and don't let this fool have another minute in your head. You behaved like a star...stellar composure. Another Bully. 👹 Seriously...

11 Apr 16 by member: Sarah1950

Thank you for sharing Sugar...hopefully this guy gets caught and dealt with.

11 Apr 16 by member: Steven Lloyd

I guess why it bothers me so is, that when I was 14, I was a victim of a violent crime. The police didn't do anything back then (1974). The guys got away with it. (Small town corruption) No man protected me then and to have this happen and still no man stepped up to help me. This creep was at least 70 yrs old. I always promised myself I would never fall victim to this sort of thing again. It brought up old memories that I thought I had worked through after all these years. I really want to thank everyone on this site. I have so much respect for the men and women here. If everyone supported each other like on here, the world would be such a better place.

11 Apr 16 by member: Sugar Waffle

I'm sorry you had to deal with someone like that. I hope he is caught. I don't know the laws there but a reckless endangerment charge or worse maybe should have been issued. You handled yourself well. Relieve that stress and get back on track.

11 Apr 16 by member: ChicaLean

That old guy is just a jerk. I believe that at some point we are all held accountable, in life here on earth or otherwise. It's very understandable this would upset you, but maybe in a way it's also helping you to further deal with and get past the old hurts? Irregardless you are a very positive and caring person, and posting about it shows you're moving forward from it. You showed grace and forgiveness despite his vulgarity, you are the better and stronger person. Keep going forward, don't let some ignorant jerk have more power over you than he's already done.

11 Apr 16 by member: jmb3450

jmb3450,you are so right as everyone else who commented on here! just found this quote from power of positivity: "If you allow someone to make you angry, you have let him conquer you." I believe that. --- I guess I was focusing on why someone would try to deliberately hurt another including me. If he was that bad in public, I can't imagine what he'd be like behind closed doors towards his family. deasmiles' suggestion is a very good one.

11 Apr 16 by member: Sugar Waffle

That's so awful... I'm very glad you are alright.

11 Apr 16 by member: trackin64

Hang in there...how terrifying...and the feeling of not getting help is so frustrating. Take care!

11 Apr 16 by member: iulani

So sorry you had to go through that Sugar and that it triggered memories from the past episode. Remember You are strong and are positive - don't give away your power and let him ruin your positive path.

11 Apr 16 by member: newmooney

I'm glad you are okay. You are so wise Sugar. So why are you Stress eating, lately. ?

11 Apr 16 by member: Jones Jennifer

That's horrible that big jerk! I'm glad you are safe.

11 Apr 16 by member: SjF60

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